More Tips for Tidy Child Support Accounting

Recently I learned that it’s standard operating procedure for banks to retain customer account records for only seven years. Some clients have child support obligations that run up to 18 years, so the moral of this story is not to rely on the bank for proof that you paid child support. Be a geek and wear both a belt and suspenders!   

It’s rare to get a bank statement with your actual canceled checks anymore, but most banks at least provide scanned images. Hold onto these records in your safe deposit box or place where you keep important documents until after your final child support payment is made and an account audit shows a zero balance.

Just this month a client who religiously paid child support (directly to his ex-wife rather than the registry), was served with an enforcement action after his child graduated high school. After pouring through years of canceled checks and statements, we ended up proving the majority of the payments were made. But, it put the client in a bad position to scramble for old documents on short notice. 

The other moral to the story is not to make child support payments directly to the custodial parent. 

Child Support - Keeping Your Account Straight

When a family court sets child support, the parties’ and their attorneys are responsible for establishing an account with either the local child support registry or Texas Child Support State Disbursement Unit (SDU) in San Antonio, Texas. A central purpose is to provide a neutral third party to monitor the obligor’s payments and report arrearages to the Office of the Attorney General. While many of my clients groan about paying child support through the SDU (or through wage withholding) rather than directly paying the custodial parent, I remind them that the account eliminates future disputes between the parents, if used properly. 

Child support registries and the SDU are run by humans, and as we know, humans are subject to making mistakes. Whether you are the child support obligor or obligee, I highly encourage you to request an audit of your child support account at least every two years. This is as important as checking the accuracy of your credit report on a regular basis. 

If an error is made in the account, it is far better to clear it up sooner rather than later. Little is as frustrating as pouring over pages of child support history and trying to reconcile obligations, credits, missed payments, and interest charges. 

Another quick check is to review your pay stub deductions. If you are the obligor parent, verify that your employer is deducting the correct amount from each check. If the employer is not deducting enough, it is ultimately the obligor’s responsibility to make sure the proper amount is paid.