Pre-Marital Agreements - 8 good reasons to have one

My colleague at prenuptialagreements.org posted a great blog story about how pre-marital (a/k/a pre-nuptial) agreements are beneficial to prospective spouses. The excerpt from his story follows:

A preenuptial agreement is an agreement between two people that deals with the financial consequences of their marriage ending.

All marrying couples have a "prenuptial agreement" - it is known as "divorce law." However, a lot of people are unhappy with the way divorce law works, and prefer to take control of their lives, rather than leave it in the hands of the government. In these cases, it makes a lot of sense to get a customized prenup.

Getting a prenuptial agreement is particularly important in these 8 cases:

1. You are much wealthier than your partner. A prenuptial agreement can ensure that your partner is marrying you for who you are, and not for your money.

2. You earn much more than your partner. A prenuptial agreement can be used in many states to limit the amount of alimony that is payable.

3. You are remarrying. When you remarry, your legal and financial concerns are often very different than in your first marriage. You may have children from a previous marriage, support obligations, and own a home or other significant assets. A prenuptial agreement can ensure that when you pass away, your assets are distributed according to your wishes, and that neither your first family, nor your new family are cut off.

4. Your partner has a high debt load. If you are marrying someone with a significant debt load, and don't want to be responsible for these debts if your marriage ends, then a prenuptial agreement can help ensure that this does not happen.

5. You own part of a business. Without a prenuptial agreement, when your marriage ends, your spouse could end up owning a share of your business. Your business partners may not want this to happen. A prenup can ensure that your spouse does not become an unwanted partner in your business.

6. To prevent your spouse from overturning your estate plan. A prenuptial agreement can ensure that you estate plan works, and, for instance, ensure that a specific heirloom remains in your family.

7. You are much poorer than your partner. Just as a prenuptial agreement can be used to protect a spouse who is well off, a prenup can also be used to ensure that the partner who is weaker financially is protected.

8. If you plan to quit your job to raise children. Quitting your job will negatively impact your income and your wealth. A prenuptial agreement can ensure that the financial burden of raising the children is shared fairly by both partners.

My Spouse And I No Longer Want Our Premarital Agreement. Can We Simply Destroy It?

It is a common misconception that either party can simply tear up, shred, or otherwise destroy a premarital agreement to nullify it. To properly revoke the premarital agreement, both parties must execute a written agreement (using the same formalities as in executing the pre-marital agreement) to property revoke. 

It does not matter if one or both of the parties is certain to have destroyed all the copies.  Usually the attorneys for the husband and wife retain an executed copy. If the revocation of the premarital agreement is not handled properly, either party may seek to enforce pre-marital agreement.

Before attempting to revoke or amend a pre-marital agreement, it is best to seek assistance of a licensed attorney familiar with such agreements.

What states recognize premarital agreements?

In Texas premarital agreements are valid contractual agreements that allow prospective spouses to amend the “default” marital property rules, but premarital agreements are not recognized by all US states. This is an important factor to consider in today’s mobile society.

At the time this post was written, 27 states recognize pre-marital agreements in some form. The states include:

Arizona
Arkansas
California
Connecticut
Delaware
District of Columbia
Florida
Hawaii
Idaho
Illinois


Indiana
Iowa
Kansas
Maine
Montana
Nebraska
Nevada
New Mexico
North Carolina


North Dakota
Oregon
Rhode Island
South Dakota
Texas
Utah
Virginia
Wisconsin

In 2008, states considering recognition of premarital agreements include Mississippi, Missouri, South Carolina and West Virginia.

For more information on the Uniform Premarital Agreement Act, visit http://nccusl.org/Update/uniformact_factsheets/uniformacts-fs-upaa.asp